Not for love of money, but of Humanity. "Greater is he who works for the good of all, then he who works for the good of himself only" ~ Matthew 25:40: "The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'"- (NIV). I live in Singapore where the Emperor must not be disturbed.
Saturday, September 16, 2017
Mercenary PAP Ministers and MPs look down on SOS suicide hotline volunteers who work for free.
Ms Christine Wong, executive director of SOS, told The Straits Times ahead of World Suicide Prevention Day 2017 yesterday that there has been a "significant" dip in the number of calls answered by Singapore's main suicide hotline."
According to the PAP, volunteering at suicide hotline SOS as counsellors for free is the most disgraceful and undignified thing to do in Singapore because the top political leaders and CEOs like to compare salaries with each other and will only talk to/ obey the instructions of somebody whose salary is higher. (Ref: PAP MP Lim Wee Kiak: "If the annual salary of the Minister of Information, Communication and Arts is only $500,000, it may pose some problems when he discuss policies with media CEOs who earn millions of dollars because they need not listen to the minister's ideas and proposals. Hence, a reasonable payout will help to maintain a bit of dignity.").
It is thus due to pervasive PAP mercenary philosophy and exhortations that those who volunteer for free are labeled shameful, stupid / UNDIGNIFIED that SOS has to leave desperate calls to its hotline UNANSWERED due to volunteer shortages because it is the PAP who made the volunteer job 'shameful / UNDIGNIFIED/ unattractive' to begin with.
SOS: More volunteers needed to lend an ear
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PUBLISHED: SEP 11, 2017, 5:00 AM SGT
Suicide-prevention centre needs extra hands to man hotline, as more calls go unanswered
Toh Wen Li
The Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) need your help. It has insufficient volunteers to man the suicide-prevention centre's 24-hour hotline, so more calls are going unanswered.
Ms Christine Wong, executive director of SOS, told The Straits Times ahead of World Suicide Prevention Day 2017 yesterday that there has been a "significant" dip in the number of calls answered by Singapore's main suicide hotline.
Last year, 35,832 calls were taken, compared to 39,310 in 2012.
While the number of trained volunteers has remained stable over the years, the demanding nature of many full-time jobs means volunteers have less time to be in the SOS office to take calls, she said.
Of the 173 volunteers on SOS' database as of last year, only 59.8 per cent could fully commit to the hours required of them, which includes some overnight duty.
Most calls come in between midnight and 2am - which is also when there are fewest volunteers.
SOS receives 100 to 120 calls every day and there is not always someone available to take them.
Ms Wong said SOS used to have a number of volunteers who were stay-at-home expatriate wives but, these days, they also work.
429: Number of people who took their own lives last year, up from 409 in 2015, 415 in 2014 and 422 in 2013.
Keen on being an SOS volunteer?
Volunteers play an integral role in the Samaritans of Singapore's (SOS) 24-hour hotline service. Applications to be a volunteer are open throughout the year.
Those seeking meaningful, long-term volunteering opportunities can fill up an application form on the SOS website or e-mail email@example.com for more information.
The next round of interviews for potential SOS volunteers will take place at the end of this month.
Those who pass the interview will go through comprehensive training, starting in January.
The three stages of training will last for nine to 12 months. Potential volunteers are assessed by trainers before they can move on to the next stage.
Successful volunteers must be committed to their duties.
Toh Wen Li
•If you are having suicidal thoughts or are in emotional distress, you can call SOS' 24-hour hotline on 1800-221-4444.
Then there are a few who, for various reasons, leave SOS immediately after training and never fulfil their commitment.
If the trend of dwindling numbers of active volunteers continues, the not-for-profit organisation might have to consider employing more staff, or reassess if it can run the hotline round the clock. Ms Wong noted: "This is a worldwide issue with all hotlines and not unique to Singapore."
The odd hours and emotional toll of listening to people in dire straits mean that many volunteers do not stay for long, a long-time SOS volunteer told The Straits Times. The retired nurse, 61, who has taken calls at the hotline for about 10 years, admits that there are times when she feels "very overwhelmed".
"Anyone with the desire to help people, just listen and be empathetic, would be excellent (as a volunteer). The training is excellent, the commitment is very transparent, and it's flexible: You can choose when you want to volunteer."
Mr Jonathan Siew, assistant director of Care Corner Counselling Centre, said the centre has about 130 volunteers managing the counselling hotline from 10am to 10pm throughout the week.
While there has not been a sharp fall in numbers, the centre has found it difficult to recruit volunteers in recent years as most people are attracted to voluntary work that doesn't require long-term commitment, he said.
Mr Siew added: "We are looking at the possibility of expanding the hotline service to support more callers, but it is challenging to get people to volunteer for the hotline."
A total of 429 people took their lives last year, up slightly from 409 in 2015, 415 in 2014, and 422 in 2013.
Over the weekend, some organisations commemorated World Suicide Prevention Day 2017. On Saturday, Shan You Counselling Centre ran a suicide awareness training session for the public called safeTalk: Suicide Alertness for Everyone.
A 64-year-old retired engineer who volunteers at the centre's Mandarin-speaking Yuan Yuan Helpline for four hours a week said about 10 per cent of the calls he fields are from suicidal individuals.
Ms Celestine Chua, a counsellor at the centre, stressed that training the public to look out for warning signs in loved ones was important, since not every suicidal person would call a helpline.
"Instead of waiting for suicidal individuals to come to us, we are trying to train people in the community to look out for (warning) signs and render support," she said.
A version of this article appeared in the print edition of The Straits Times on September 11, 2017, with the headline 'SOS: More volunteers needed to lend an ear'.
"If the annual salary of the Minister of Information, Communication and Arts is only $500,000, it may pose some problems when he discuss policies with media CEOs who earn millions of dollars because they need not listen to the minister's ideas and proposals. Hence, a reasonable payout will help to maintain a bit of dignity."
- MP Lim Wee Kiak apologises for comments on pay(26May2011)